
A Wedding in Hawaii, How Original
s + d- The DIY route to wedding planning!
Budget Savvy Bride

What a great, casual way to hang out, introduce and bond with family and friends.
Our next task was to find a location to have said BBQ. I was thinking something by the beach, that (of course) had easy access to some sort of grill. Knowing a lil' of Hawaii (being that I had lived there in my younger years), my first thought was Barber's Point; it's a military beach of sorts, they have cabins and camping. Which got me thinking of other military facilities. Bellows, another military beach....and a much nicer one at that (it's Air Force "owned", no offence to my brother branches). A cabin at Bellow's would be perfect! We'd have access to a grill, a kitchen, the beach (and showers for after the beach). Perfect, perfect.
In June (about 9 months before needed date) I called Bellows to find out their availability. They were booked. Till May of 2009. No joke. I was bummed, but no biggie. What were our alternatives? Well, I thought about just trying my luck on getting a picnic table on welcome BBQ day, but what if there weren't any tables available. Or what if I can't get access to some sort of cooking device? What's a BBQ without the cooked food? I also was looking forward to the option of cold beverages, the alcoholic kind, and I knew no beach in Hawaii was going to allow that. Our last resort was to have it at our rented condo, but a BBQ inside didn't sound appealing. I did ponder the thought of having an ice cream social instead and having that held at our condo...that was my last resort option.
Months later and still no plan. I was aimlessly looking at the Bellows website again and came across a link for "facility rentals"....they have rental pavilions! I called Bellows again, and wouldn't you know it, by this time their cabins were booked till September 2009, but for welcome BBQ day all 3 pavilions were free. So for $75 I booked it.
Yes, it might be a lil' pricey for a BBQ venue, but I can relax and be stress free about having to find a place, it's by the beach, there's a grill, you can drink at the pavilion (no drinks on the beach), and for a $2 volleyball rental there are volleyball nets nearby. Sold.
My idea was to have these efficient palm fans sitting on every chair at the ceremony, so when the wedding guest sits down they have their own "air maker" for comfort during the ceremony. In "the knot" world it's not the most original idea, but I can guarantee that no guest attending our wedding had a palm fan waiting for them on their seat at any other wedding they've ever attended in the past.
So Mr. Mek's mother's friend (did you get all that?!) had a trip planned to the Philippines and I asked her is she could bring me back some palm fans. I originally looked online to order them and the cheapest I saw was $8.99 per dozen. Not too bad, but knowing that these are made in the Philippines, I was pretty sure I could get them cheaper. Hey, I'm on a budget! Sure enough, 25 fans were brought back for me. I actually have no idea how much they cost since mother-in-law Mek wouldn't let me pay for them, but I'm pretty sure it is somewhere around $5.00 for all 25 or some outrageous price like that.
Next step....make them puuuuurty.

My supplies: palm fan, scissors, glue gun, glue sticks, ribbon.






Pau!
Brings back some color to these natural fans. After seeing knottie eyeheartmike use colored fans for her wedding, I wished I would've gotten red fans instead. Oh well.
knottie: eyeheartmike
knottie: Mrs.Winter knottie: plumeriapal
See the lil' boy in the upper right corner...yikes! If ya gotta go, you gotta go!
knottie: Mrs.Schenkertobe
photographer: Stefanie Riedel
I absolutely love this, German and Japanese garb.
I only have one more request for my "must take" photos...but it's a biggie and can be broken down into sub topics...
DETAILS!
Invitations. I worked sooo hard on these, there better be a good photo of them, damnit!

knottie: Mrs.Veroni
Rings.
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knottie: MauidAims
Venue. I picked my venue because it is beautiful, I want to reflect that in my wedding photos.
knottie: girlinthemoon
knottie: Mrsailinamei
knottie: MrsJohnny
Decorations/Ceremony Set-up.
knottie: ksirish
knottie: Mrs.Veroni
knottie: MrsNFB
knottie: Mrs.Schenkertobe
And that's what I call a "must take photo" list.
Zipping up or buttoning the wedding dress
Bride looking into a mirror
Bride and bridesmaids putting on makeup
Groom tying tie
Groom looking into mirror
Portrait of father and bride
Portrait of mother and bride
Outside of ceremony site
Bridesmaids walking down the aisle
Flower girl and ring bearer walking down aisle
Groom waiting for bride
Close up of bride, just before she makes her entrance
Bride and father walking down aisle
The back of bride and father walking down the aisle – with the groom waiting in the distance
Shot of the audience from the bride and groom’s point of view
Close up of bride and groom saying the vows
Wide shot of bride and groom saying the vows
Close up of hands
The kiss
Bride & Groom walking up the aisle
Guests throwing confetti/rose petals/birdseed
Bride alone
Groom alone
Bride with Maid of Honor
Bride with bridesmaids
Bride with parents
Bride & Groom together
Bride & Groom with parents
Bride & Groom with families
Bride & Groom with entire wedding party
Bride & Groom with flower girl and ring bearer
Groom with parents
Groom with groomsmen
The getaway
etc.
etc.
etc.
I'm sorry, but as a photographer, paying a photographer thousands of dollars for his expertise in shooting weddings, this should be common sense for him. "Bride and Father walking down aisle, Bride and Groom together, Bride and Groom with families....." duh! Please don't insult your wedding photographer by giving him a list like this. Now, if he asks for a list, that's a different story. I also believe that you are paying money for your vendor's experience and expertise and I feel that a long list like this deteriorates the artists creativity. Now don't get me wrong, if you've see a photo you've seen another photographer do and would like to mimic it or are inspired by it, that's a different story. For example, my list of "must take photos":
First sight: I plan on seeing my groomie before we officially wed and would like to capture our "first meeting".
Knottie: MrsPinkAJV&M

Knottie: Jen&Len
Fun group photos! Instead of everyone just standing on the stairs of the church.
Knottie: Daffodil_Jill
Knottie: MrsPinkAJV
Knottie: ilovemycoastie3
Group shot of the WHOLE wedding, guests and all! Since I'm having a small wedding I would like to have a group photo with everyone in attendance. Great for thank you cards later!
Knottie: MrsNFB
Knottie: cassiopia610
to be continued...