The breakdown:
Date: March 05, 2009
City, State: Kaneohe, Hawaii
Budget: $10,000
# of Guests: 21
Ceremony Site/Type of Venue: $738. Byodo-In Temple. $700 for the use of the temple grounds for 2 hours (this also included a photography fee to photograph on their grounds). We spent about $38 in ribbon and paper lanterns to decorate the aisle. We figured that the temple grounds was so beautiful, there was no need to spend too much money on decor. I'm glad we went this route; the temple is BEAU.TI.FUL.
Reception Site/Type of Venue: $795 (about $37.85 per person). Germaine's Luau. My wondrous folks were generous to gift this to us. Most of our guests were first time Hawaii visitors and since we're pretty laid back, we decided to forgo a traditional luau and take them to a luau instead. This is open to the public, so the general public was at the luau with us. We got a great deal in cost using a military discount. The luau included a yummy Hawaiian buffet (with cake!), few adult beverages, and 3 hours of entertainment. 
Caterer/Food/Drink (per person if available): $0, included with luau.
Bridal Gown & Alterations: $373. $320 for my dress, which was purchased off of ebay. $53 for alterations, by Karen Chow, a godsend!
Bridal Accessories (Veil, Undergarments, Shoes, Jewelry): $120.94. Includes hair fascinator, 2 pairs of shoes (pair for the ceremony, pair for the luau), earrings and undies. This also includes the $12 I spent on our flowergirl's dress and her parasol. 
Groom’s Attire: $492. His suit was custom made by Island Importer, $300. Shoes were also custom made Nike sneaks, $107. Shirt from Express, $35. Minor suit alterations, $50.
Stationery/Postage: $253.09. Includes our wedding invites, our Passport STDs, and inserts for our welcome bags.
Groom’s Attire: $492. His suit was custom made by Island Importer, $300. Shoes were also custom made Nike sneaks, $107. Shirt from Express, $35. Minor suit alterations, $50.
Stationery/Postage: $253.09. Includes our wedding invites, our Passport STDs, and inserts for our welcome bags. Photography: $2094.24. Frank Amodo is wondrous and totally worth it! Nuff' said.
No, but seriously, we hired him for as long as we could afford to (which was 4 hours) and it really was totally worth it. I wish we could have been able to have him ALL day, but our budget couldn't cut it. I would rather have a AWESOME photographer for half the day, then a so-so photographer for the full day.
No, but seriously, we hired him for as long as we could afford to (which was 4 hours) and it really was totally worth it. I wish we could have been able to have him ALL day, but our budget couldn't cut it. I would rather have a AWESOME photographer for half the day, then a so-so photographer for the full day.
Ceremony Music: $150. I never went into this, mainly because the vendor ticked me off. I ended up hiring an ukulele player off of craigslist. I really did get an awesome deal, but the guy changed his prices on me 3 times. THREE. I really would have paid his top price to begin with, but it was more of the principle that you don't change your prices 3 times in a 30 day period (this was even after I talked to him on the phone). I would have went another route, but I waited 'til the last minute and really didn't have any other options. In all honesty, I don't even remember him playing. At all. I'm sure he did...I was just too busy trying not to trip down the aisle to notice.
Flowers: $50. We really didn't have flowers; no bouquets or bouts. We literally waited 'til the last minute to pick up leis for our lei ceremony. Literally, as in the morning of our wedding day. I really wish I would have got better (and prettier) leis for our family members. That's what happens when you wait until the last minute.
Officiant: $250. Alice Inoue. ::love.her:: I could have gone through the temple and used their officiant for $50 less, but I really liked how organized Alice was and it was totally worth it for my piece of mind. She really spoke from the heart and our ceremony didn't feel scripted at all.
Coordinator: $0. I really relied on friends and family to help out here. Bestie Lauren and her husband, Kirk, really came through for me. Kirk has done TONS of events at the JW Marriott Ihilani Resort and helped out by providing me ceremony chairs, setting up and tearing down our ceremony site. He's starting to branch out into coordinating; hit him up if you're getting married in Hawaii. khedani@yahoo.com
Hair/Makeup: $273. Includes hair and make-up (including airbrush make-up and lashes) for me, my mom, and MIL. May is such a doll. She is the sweetest girl ever and she knows her stuff! Heart her!
Transportation: $405. Through Hickam's ITT (military travel), we were able to get a shuttle van to pick up all of our guests, staying in Waikiki, at their hotel, take them to the ceremony in Kaneohe, from the ceremony to the Luau (on the other side of the island), then back to their hotel (about 9 hours). They even upgraded our van to a shuttle bus. I originally called 3 local transportation companies and they wanted to charge me twice the amount for half the time. We really scored on this one!
Favors: $63.40. At our welcome BBQ, we gifted each of our guests with a bag of PA and Hawaii local goodies.
Wedding Party Gifts: $115.05. We didn't have a wedding party, but I did gift my two besties a custom blurb "yearbook" of our friendship, along with a few other goodies. Just because they weren't "official" bridesmaids, didn't mean that they weren't there for me for everything, wedding related and more.
Flight: $1541.60. Roundtrip flight for two.
Car Rental: $260.21. One week car rental.
Hotels: $600 (for 9 days). We used timeshare for 7 of the days and Hale Koa (military hotel) for the other two. We figured we wouldn't be in the room much, so no need to go all out.
WEDDING DAY TOTAL: $8574.53
TOTAL COST PER PERSON(divide wedding day total by # of guests) : $408.31
TOTAL COST PER PERSON(divide wedding day total by # of guests) : $408.31
All Inclusive Costs:
Welcome BBQ: $153.55. Includes a pavillion rental from Bellows and food.
Wedding Bands: $699. Mr. Mek's ring was purchased through the AAFES catalog (for military peeps). My ring was purchased while in Hawaii from the NEX, literally a week before the wedding. This was planned; I REALLY wanted my wedding ring to be Hawaiian jewelry and it's always much cheaper to purchase from the military stores (plus no tax!). Our rings totally don't match each others; we figured if we were the ones wearing the ring for life, might as well pick out what we really like.
Honeymoon: $374.90. Includes 2 RT tickets to Big Island from Oahu, 2 night hotel stay (does not include meals or tours).
ALL INCLUSIVE TOTAL: $1227.45
ALL INCLUSIVE TOTAL: $1227.45
GRAND TOTAL (wedding day total + all inclusive total): $9801.98
Not too shabby for a destination wedding in Hawaii. Sure, we didn't have 300+ people or our own intimate reception with a cake, but it was totally us. For you military peeps out there, utilize your military discounts! We saved thousands alone on just the reception luau and transportation. Its doesn't hurt to ask, the worst they can say is no.
except my handsome Mr. 
and off we went to the "reception".
My two, oldest besties. We each live in a different state now, but will always be my close (non-biological) family. Mwah! I love how they color coordinated. hehe.
One of wedding regrets (by fault of no one but my own) is not taking more group shots. By normal wedding standards, I had an extremely tiny wedding (19 peeps). I really wish I would have had our photographer take a quick photo of every individual couple or family. I mean, seriously, it would have only been about 7 extra shots (well..you figure more than one shot per couple, but you get my drift). Ehh...what can you do now. I did however get a group shot of everyone. 
::love::
Declaration of Intent:
Ring Vows:
We kissed.
