Wedding Guilt

While I've actually enjoyed planning a destination wedding, there are a few things that has me feeling guilty and it's all because we're having a destination wedding.

Unfortunately, majority of Mr. Mek's family and friends will not be able to make our wedding. Besides the undeniable cost, some of his family have been dealing with health issues or have military obligations, which prevents them from being able to attend. There are a few happy reasons why some can't attend; his brother and his best friend are both planning a wedding of their own, both to take place this summer. Out of the 19 guests who will be in attendance to our wedding, only one of them is a guest of Mr. Meks. His mom. While Mr. Mek is totally fine with this and really could care less how many of his family and friends are able or not able to make it, I can't help but feel a lil' guilty about it. Even worse, we weren't able to bring his 4 year old son to Hawaii with us. This I feel the worst about. Again, Mr. Mek is cool, calm and collected about the situation. I just feel bad that my bestest's lil' girl is going to be our flower girl and it would've been sooooo adorable to have Lil' B be in the wedding to, but alas, he won't be able to attend. I feel horrible that Lil' B won't be able to participate in his dad's wedding day.

I can't be the only one. What are your wedding day guilt's?