I'm overreacting about shoes.

I'm having a shoe dilemma. Which is actually kinda funny since it only took me 5 minutes to find a wedding dress I like, but it's taking me MONTHS to find 1 pair of shoes. I wanted a pair of fun, funky, red shoes. Preferably peep toe. Here were some shoes that inspired me:

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These are really starting to grow on me. source

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From Delman's Spring 2008 Collections

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I bought these wedges, mainly thinking that if they didn't work with my dress, I could still rock them with a cute pair of jeans. Welp, with jeans it will have to be. Not only are they a cream color (too yellowish to go with my dress) they are also made of a canvas material. Still super cute shoes though!

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I also bought these; which are my current contender for our wedding ceremony.

My Dilemma: while they are super cute, they are also 4 inches high, so they super hurt. Plus, my ceremony is on grass so I'm quite concerned about the stiletto heel. Although I guess I could use heel stopper to prevent from sinking into the grass. I guess I'm just not 100% on them.

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I did purchase comfy Colin Stuart slippers to change into after the ceremony. They are 3.25 inches high. They were the closest ones I could find to 4 inches.

I got the red ones! source

Do I suck it up and live with the ones I got, or do I find new shoes that maybe have a heel closer to the slipper's heel height and a thicker heel? Suggestions?